Episode 279: 5 Erotic Blueprints—What’s Your Sexual Style?

This week we’re talking about erotic blueprints. Like the 5 love languages—but all about sex! We all have different ways that we get turned on… Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and the Shapeshifter. Do you know your dominant style?

When partners have different sexual styles, they can be on completely different wavelengths and don’t understand what their partner wants. How do you get them talking about it and into flexibility, so that they can meet each other’s needs?

In a committed erotic life, you have to be willing to meet each other half way. Some of the time, figuring out what your partner’s big turn on is and giving them that, keeps it exciting for both of you. How can we meet our partner in a different approach and learn to speak each other’s erotic language? The more we keep parts of ourselves outside of our partner, the less there is to engage with sexually. If we share more and more with our partner, the odds go up that we’re more intimate and understand each other better.