Episode 302: How to Ask Your Partner for Variety in the Bedroom
Want to explore new moves with your partner, but don't know how to ask? How can Pursuers approach and encourage their Withdrawer partner to open their mind to new things?…
Episode 301: The #1 Sex Life Destroying Habit & How To Fix It
All of us have struggles communicating, and these struggles often seep into the bedroom. As sex and couples therapists, we often run into couples who avoid talking about sex and…
Episode 300: The Shared Trauma of 9/11
Where were you on 9/11? We all remember. It's been 20 years. Most of us were stunned, watching the twin towers fall - but George was with the FDNY rushing…
Episode 299: Vulnerability Can Spice Up A Boring Marriage
Couples who find themselves stuck in the boring and mundane are often couples who have failed to be vulnerable. George uses a three-road analogy to explain why some couples remain…
Episode 298: Frustrated Pursuers–The Pain of Rejection
We always talk about sexual Pursuers and Withdrawers—those who seek sex and those who withdraw from it. In this episode, we focus on the frustration and pain of rejection for…
Episode 297: When Does Sex Become Compulsive?
It is believed that 3-6% of people in the U.S. struggle with sexual compulsion, all genders can be affected. Sometimes sexual activities become compulsive and lead to a damaging pattern…
Episode 296: 4 Steps To Romantic Sex!
We talk a lot about romance outside of the bedroom, but what does a romantic interlude look like? “I wish my partner were more romantic in bed” is a statement…
Episode 295: How To Talk About Sex While Grieving
In this episode, we explore grief through the lens of sexual intimacy... For many couples, sexual intercourse is a safe space where they can be vulnerable, knowing that they can…
Episode 294: Red HOT—The Color of Attraction
Q&A episode!!! We're answering a bunch of different questions from our listeners about the science of attraction, faking it, and how to bring sexy back! What does scientific research say…
Episode 293: It Takes Two to Tango!
We often use the word "tango" in EFT in context of the cycles, patterns, or feedback loop that couples can get stuck in. How do you change that dynamic so…